I was reading a post on yahoo titled, "How to have sex with the right guy." Which gave in to an interesting point, the ladies want a man who isn't overly talkative during sex, but also someone who is fully in tuned with who he is, and who you are. This author discussed three different men, the selfish lover, the overly sensitive, and then Mr. In between.
Which got me thinking, can't we transfer this Mr. Perfect to be more then just a sexual partner? For me, i always seem to find either totally selfish guys, or really sensitive types. But all i want is the guy who can balance both, I want a man who has sexy confidence, enough to know when he should kiss me. But yet, a guy who can bring me flowers or chocolates when I'm on my period and play it off like its nothing, hey guys--its sexy when your confident and sensitive at the same time!
But isn't this what every women wants? The man we don't have to tell anything to, because he just knows already by reading our signals. A guy who knows where he wants to go for dinner, but asks us anyways, or knows us enough to know. It sounds like perfection, the man who can balance confidence and sensitivity.
What do you think? Selfish? Sensitive? Or the man who can pull off both?
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